(Closed) I’m feeling down and stuck in a rut..what to do?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

It sounds like you’ve got a lot of stressors in your life right now.  For what it’s worth, I think you look great … and the weight on the scale is just a number (what’s more important is how you feel and look).

All BC pills are different – some made me gain weight and some made me terribly moody.  If you think your BC pill is part of your problem, maybe suggest to your doctor that you try a different type.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

The BC pills could be making you feel moody/emotional too! When I have PMS i’m an emotional wreck sometimes for no reason. I hope you feel better soon, maybe once you start moving in and decorating and getting to come home to your Fiance every evening will cheer you up ๐Ÿ™‚  and I think you look gorgeous, I honestly don’t see the weight gain.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper

all i can do is offer sympathy and empathy! i feel the same way – stuck in a rut and i dont know why!  i finished my internship and moved back east. i am closer to my friends and family,  but they are a still a 6 hour drive. i have a couple of friends in my new city, but i have yet to see them because i cant find the energy to get out and make plans!  and the weight thing happened to me too! at my wedding in April i was 128 lbs and now i am 138!  and i desperately want to lose at least 8 pounds before my At home reception in 3 weeks and i dont know if i can!

sorry all i can do is join your misery for now and have hope that we will find something to get up and out soon enough!

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper

oh and ironically i got OFF the pill after my wedding!

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper

@misssydneyj:  ya that can infuriating!  however i think i gained weight because of my rut, i stopped exercising and watching what i ate. and basically went back to old habits.  last week the scale actually said 142! that freaked me out and i have kicked myself back into gear, but i still feel i can do better   ๐Ÿ™    

anyway, i think once you get settled and your promotion starts, you will feel better.  and if you have been working out and all that adn you dont see a difference – maybe some of your weight gain is muscle?  because you still look amazing!

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