Post # 121
I agree with PP, I would keep contact with him very limited. I broke up with an abusive ex a few months ago and I was extremely surprised by his reaction. He wasn’t mad at all and said he understood and knew he didn’t treat me right. Then he started basically stalking me, driving by my house, waiting outside my work, etc. He didn’t react well when he found out I was dating someone else not too long after our break up either.
Post # 122
I am so happy to read your update and that you managed to get out quickly and safely.
I also want to Echo the PPs who are saying that it is CLASSIC emotional abuser tactic to try and act sweet when you show any force. “look what a great person I am” slowly becomes “come back I’ll be better” which brings you back to where you were before.
Live your life, away from this guy.
Post # 123
I am really happy for you. Agree with pp about his niceness being a classic abuser move. That’s what they do to get you back. Then they let hell break loose.