(Closed) I’m freaking out, calm me down!!

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
298 posts
Helper bee

*hugs*  It will be okay, just get in contact with him and see how much J told him about your wedding and plans.  Good luck!  Breath.  ^_^

Post # 4
2395 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow, I’m really sorry! I can see why you’d be upset, I would be too.  Did you voice your concerns to the sales director, about how J “got” your vision and you’re nervous to work with someone you haven’t met?  Maybe she would be able to tell you more about L to ease your concerns. 

Post # 5
5262 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

*Hugs* I totally understand how much this could freak you out! BUT the good news is that J is still with the company. Can you contact her and ask her to fill in P personally, and leave him all her inspiration? I’m sure she’s done that anyway, but I bet you’d feel better having spoken to her about it as well? Besides that, I think you need to have some good phone and email convos with P so that he can envision everything as enthusiastically as J did. 

As for him being new, think about how much experience he will have by the time of your wedding… it may not be years and years, but he will have learned a lot of valuable lessons by that time. Sometimes people have a certain flair for these things. I think once you get to know him, you’ll feel better. 

Post # 6
5495 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

*Hugs* I agree with Raindrops! Call him.

Post # 7
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

This happened to me – I was communicating with one person at the hotel about my Destination Wedding in Puerto Rico and suddenly I got an email that said my contact had left the company entirely. I was a little nervous at first, but my new contact has been just as responsive and maybe even a little better than the first one! So if you’ve had a good experience up until this point with the company/location in general, I’m sure you’ll be okay. Give it some time and see what happens. If you do feel like the new person isn’t working out, just let them know and they should accommodate your needs. But really, I think it will be fine – it has been for me!

Post # 8
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Claxton Farm

I completely understand your stress! Things will be ok! This is certainly a change of events, but you’ll make it about the two of you, and it’ll be beautiful!



Post # 9
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

Wow – I’m really sorry!! I agree with the others – just get into contact with him – hopefully it will ease your nerves!!

Post # 10
2680 posts
Sugar bee

Im sorry that happened but Im sure it will work out.  Before your contact fully begins her new promotion, I am sure she will catch up the new guy on everything and go through your file with him. Definitely get in contact with him to introduce yourself and get a chance to talk with him.

Post # 11
1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

No worries – I bet she downloaded all the info to him so everything will be just fine. Did she leave the company completely or is she just in a higher position at the same location? I’m with the other girls. Give the new guy a call & see what he says. Hey – you never know, maybe you’ll end up liking him even better! 🙂 

Post # 14
2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Deep breath — I am sure it will all work out, definitely have faith in them. If your concerns are still shaken, contact your former planner and ask her if she could advise on a conference call with the new guy and you.

Post # 15
582 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

The same thing happened to me. Everything is going to be alright, Im sure the new guy is going to take great care of your wedding. The new lady that is helping us is actually more helpful than the last. Im sure it will all work out just try to stay calm and make sure you get to know the new guy.

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