Post # 1
This is my first time posting, I’ve just been stressing a bit much lately and thought maybe some other brides-to-be could help ease my mind.
I am suddenly so worried that everything is going to look awful! The dress, centerpieces, flowers, EVERYTHING! Is this normal? The wedding is just a couple months away so maybe it’s just pre-wedding jitters or something. Has anyone else freaked out like this?
Post # 3
I’ve had crazy nightmares like being in the wrong state! I think it’s normal. Just take a few deep breaths and maybe make a list? Lists calm me down, but I’m weird like that! And sometimes, when I put it on paper, it looks silly and makes me realize that I’ve thought things through and it’ll all be wonderful!
Post # 4
Yeah I think its normal to worry about that stuff whenever planning a big event. I worry all the time that no one is going to have fun or everything is going to suck 🙁
Post # 5
I did prior to my wedding.
You have to have faith in your original vision, and trust me, it will all come together in the end.
Post # 6
Girl, I worry about that everytime I even have a party at my place.
The main thing is that you and your new husband have a great day. Find a dress and a set of decorations that you enjoy and you’ll have an awesome time. Here’s a weird thing to consider, but I’m hoping it helps rather than freak you out: Someone won’t like your dress. And someone else won’t like the centerpieces. And someone else won’t like the food. No matter what you do, and how elegant it is, or how personal, or how traditional or nontraditional or DIY or custom-made or whatever, someone won’t love it. And if you can’t please everyone on every single aspect of your wedding, then screw it! That means you’re free to just pick whatever hell kind of things you want!
I’m sure that everything will work out fine. 🙂
Post # 7
Thanks everyone! I feel better knowing I’m not going crazy! Making a list is a great idea, they help calm me too! Thanks again!!