Post # 1
Ok, so this probably shouldn’t go in emotional, but I couldn’t really find a more appropriate place in the “wedding related” section. I’m not really upset or anything. It just seems like April 3 is FOREVER away! I know that’s totally absurd, it’s in three and a half months but I am one of the most impatient people on the planet. Seriously, I can rival the most bratty of three year olds when it comes to waiting for stuff. I hate waiting. If I walk in a Starbucks and there’s more than 3 people in line, I walk out (it helps that there’s a Starbucks every 20 feet where I live.) I will leave an overly crowded grocery store and drive to another so I don’t have to wait in line. Waiting = grrrr! for lezlers!
I so just want to grab my Fiance and head to Reno or something (if it wasn’t for an innate, primal fear of my mother, we likely already would have.) Let’s just get er dun! This time between planning everything and waiting for the actual day is friggin’ brutal.
Post # 3
haha can we switch places? im freaking out because i feel like i dont have enough time! less than two months hooray!
Post # 4
I totally switch between feeling like it’ll never come, to feeling like it’s here too soon. Seriously though, my TO DO list for January made my heart stop. I have SO MUCH TO DO.
Post # 5
i also go back and forht. . some days i can’t wait for feb to be here already and some days I am freaking out cause I have so much to do. what I REALLY want is to be able to quit my job between now and Feb 19th . .that would make waiting for the wedding so much nicer!!
Post # 6
I think the thing is with me that all of the big stuff is done but I’ve still got a good month before it’s time to take care of the little stuff, you know? So it’s just waiting. And waiting. And more waiting. I don’t even care about the actual wedding anymore, I just want to be married, dammit!
Post # 7
I feel the EXACT same way, so frustrating!
Post # 8
LOL! It’ll be here SO soon! (I’m an impatient waiter too, ask my SO). I bet when it gets here you’ll think, geez, time flew by!
Post # 9
That’s pretty much why we scrapped our 11.11.11 date. But then, we didn’t have the Fear of The Mother, either. It’s four months away–that’s exciting, right? You can take care of a few little things here and there, I think.
Post # 10
Three and a half months to be exact! Still seems like forever. I swear to god I have the patience of a toddler sometimes. The worst part is when it finally gets here I KNOW I’m going to wish I had relished in the anticipation and excitement instead of pitching a mini hissy!
Post # 11
@lezlers: I just LOL’d at your post, because this is exactly how I feel now. 🙂 What you’re feeling is so frustrating, I know.
I was chomping at the bit, not because I was impatient, but because I was just so ready for the planning, worrying, etc to be done. I posted here that I was starting to HATE my wedding. I got an email from a friend the week before who told me to slow down and enjoy the week because it’s a time that you won’t get back…feel the love, that kind of thing. I did my best, but the whole thing is still a blur to me.
You’ll probably find a happy medium. Also, the crazy will start to pick up again with all the last minute stuff you’ll have to do.
Time will fly, my friend…even though it feels like it’s moving at a snail’s pace.
Post # 12
I sure hope so!! I’m fairly certain it’s because I’ve got about 6 weeks of down time right now. We’re having a rather short engagement (7 and a half months) so it was planplanplanplan!!!!! then…..nothing. Once we get to late January I know it’ll be planplanplan!!!! again and it’ll fly by.
I hope. 😀
Post # 13
I feel the same way!! I think it’ll go fast, but I’m even further away than you and I just want to get married already! But I also feel like if it was sooner, I wouldn’t have enough time to plan it all!!