(Closed) I’m getting a bad feeling about this.

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I can see how you would feel nervous. I think that if she wasnt coming at all then maybe she would have said that in the email. Maybe she wants to talk to you over the phone to talk about some different options. I hope your phone call goes well.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

So sorry to hear you’re down a Bridesmaid or Best Man.  This is one of my biggest fears.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Awww bummer! So sorry to hear that. I know it sucks that they won’t be with you for your big day, but at least it’s not because of stupid drama. They both seem like they have good reasons for not being able to come. Hopefully you guys can celebrate together at some point!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Man that sucks.

I wish there was some advice I could give you but there isnt. Just try to enjoy your day and know that if the circumstances were any different, they would have been there.

Post # 8
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2313 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Ugh, that sucks. πŸ™

Post # 9
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487 posts
Helper bee

So sorry to hear that.  I can’t imagine not having one of my close friends there but I guess on the bright side (and a very dimly lit brightside that doesn’t really matter) if you chose not to replace them it saves a little bit of money…?? maybe brightside?? ok I tried…I would much rather have my friends there to.  I’m sure that you will still have a beautiful wedding surrounded by lots of people who care about you and your fiance.

Post # 10
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1761 posts
Buzzing bee

Aww, that sucks! Hopefully she’ll come visit you sometime soon and you can celebrate.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

such a bummer πŸ™ at least it sounds like you’re handling it totally gracefully though!

Post # 12
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744 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Awww, I’m so sorry about that! It really sucks πŸ™

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

awww I am so sorry πŸ™ I might be minusing a bridesmaid too… she is just too busy for me so, I am going to have a talk with her when she gets back from her vacation to see if she wants to quit. I don’t have time for someone who says they want to be there for me and help me with stuff but doesn’t actually have time for me.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

aww that stinks! I can understand why you would have a sad face.

Maybe this video might help turn that frown upside down! (maybe for a second anyway!)

http://youtu.be/G0rInDa39l8

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Oh I’m really sorry to hear that. One of my dearest dearest friends is also unable to come to my wedding and while I understand her reasons, it still hurts. :-/

Its still great you have awesome friends- even if they can’t be there that day, you will always have them as a source of love and support in your life.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I hope it works out well. It’s hard with a little kid I’m sure. πŸ™‚

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