(Closed) “I’m getting a gay vibe”

posted 6 years ago in Family
  • poll: Should I confront her?
    yes! you have to defend FI! : (10 votes)
    9 %
    No, let it go, it will only cause more drama : (93 votes)
    86 %
    other (explain) : (5 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    1235 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @Mrs.Lonestar: Dont get involved..its not worth the drama. Your mom defended your fiance already and it seemed like the girl backtracked so there is no reason to bring it up to her again. Itll just be really awkward and uncomfortable.

    Post # 4
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    9824 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    There is no point in arguing with genuinely stupid people.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1747 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @KatyElle: Well said. If i had a nickel for every time I encountered a stupid, judgmental a-hole, I would be Warren Buffet.

    Post # 8
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    2589 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    if it were me, I’d very calmly and cheerily say “yeah he’s SUPER gay – why?  does that bother you?”

    🙂

    There’s no response to people being judgemental about someones sexuality that doesn’t end up sounding defensive – if you say something like that, there is literally NOTHING she can say back to you, other than “uhhhh” (and feeling like an ass)

    Post # 9
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    215 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    It’s not worth the drama but I have to say I wish I had listened to a few people who told me that about my ex.

    Post # 11
    Member
    418 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Who cares. Let it go. It’s your life not hers, you should have nothing to prove.

    Post # 13
    Member
    10568 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I would question her on what lead her to get a ‘gay vibe’.  She’s being ridiculous unless it invovles something like seeing a guy checking out other guys.  Comments like this tend to annoy me and I try to call people out on it.

    Post # 15
    Member
    117 posts
    Blushing bee

    Sounds like she’s chock full of her own issues.  I’d let it go.  Some people just aren’t worth the energy.

    Post # 16
    Member
    11 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Maybe she’s gay and can’t find a way to tell everyone, maybe she’s just gaging everyone’s reactions…

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