(Closed) I’m getting angry

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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696 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Aw Im sorry that this happened to you. I think you need to sit down with your FH and say exactly what you said here.  Tell him once and for all that you did not send those messages nor do you have any kind of history or relationship with this friend and that he needs to trust you and drop the issue because YOU have done nothing to betray his trust..somone posing as you did.

oor just casually leave this page open..since he is bound to go snooping and see it hehe Innocent

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

This sucks. I think however you should put yourself in his shoes if this happen it would look all kinds of fishy to me. I think your fi isn’t over it, and you guys need to talk

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That sucks but put yourself in his shoes.  If you found sexy messages to another girl on his FB account and he told you it wasn’t him and then blamed it on a hacker…would you 100% believe him?  

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Unfortunately, jealousy is an ugly beast. Personally, if my fiancé asks, I’d let him see my texts or facebook messages or whatever. I would not, however, be okay with him looking through it without my knowledge. It’s not the messages I want to protect because I have nothing to hide, but I would definitely have a problem with him not trusting me. He’s punishing you unfairly. Does he understand that?

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

You definitely need to talk through this with him.. There’s no other way arouNd it honestly. I went through the same thing with my Fiance and we almost broke up.. But we got through it. Did it happen overnight? No. Did it take months? Yes. Was it hard? So very hard. But it was worth it. Not only that, but we are in SUCH a good place now. If the relationship is worth fighting for and he is willing to work on this with you, it’s worth working through. Gluck!!

Post # 13
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662 posts
Busy bee

Just password protect your page. Not to sound mean but I’d feel the same Amount of suspicion if the explanation to a sexy message like that was a hacker. I’m not saying that it wasn’t or anything in just saying it would not alleviate my suspicions. Good luck!!

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

heh. He was a reason to do what he’s doing. Your story is really unbelievable. Why would someone “hack” you to send a dirty message to a guy? If you’re not hiding anything, why would it bother you for him to look at your FB messages?

If you don’t want him to have access to your crap: don’t leave it up and don’t give him the password.

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

How important is having a private facebook to you?

I know the problem is with trust but if facebook is going to be his forever hang up how about just making a joint account?

All this technology has created relationship nightmares! 

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