Post # 32
His car stopped working and would cost too much to repair with over 200K miles on it. Growing up he bouced between his moms house here and his dads in New York. I love him but I know that he more than likely won’t change and he says I should accept him for him and quit “nagging” him all the time. His family hasn’t really done anything for themselves in life. I just want him to want to better himself to actually become something in life. I sound like a bich huh?
Post # 33
You absolutely do not sound like a bich. You sound like a person who cares very much.
Post # 34
My husband was a lot like your Fiance. After months and months of similar BS, I finally I told him “If you don’t pull your head out of your a– and start acting like an adult, I will leave.”
Was it harsh? Sure. But I felt like I needed to be harsh, as much as I love him. He was acting like a child and I wasn’t going to put up with it for the rest of my life.
Your Fiance needs a reality check. No adult woman wants to spend the rest of her life with a man who acts like a child all the time.
Post # 35
A FREAKIN MEN! I really wish Fiance had friends. He has his work buddies, but never sees them outside of work. He has no hobbies and don’t think that helps any. He thinks we have to do everything together. Do the dishes together, do the laundry together, everything and it drives me up a wall because I just want him to have hobbies so he can get out of the house. I just think that everyone should want the best for themselves and it bothers me that he doesn’t.
Post # 36
You do not sounds like a bitch. You sound like a lady who knows what she wants. Honestly, you deserve an equal partner in your relationship. It sounds like youve been putting up with his BS for a long time. Good for you for demanding what you need.
I will say though, if he can’t give you what you need.. then why stay? I think you should leave for a few days. Go stay with your mom of something. it may just give him the shock he needs to get his shit together. Plus, it’ll prove to him that you mean business.