I'm getting married, but I'm not excited about the wedding

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 16
Member
665 posts
Busy bee

Sherlock1 :  my best friend was miserable on her wedding day. I remember her in the cab over to the ballroomsaying she didn’t want to be doing this today. Wanted to go to the courthouse. 

im eloping to Hawaii. No guests. I told him I’m not marrying him if there are any guests.  lucky for me no one is in a position to force me to have a wedding or brandish money at is to have something.Fiance doesn’t have money. My parents are dead and his are broke.  I’m the only one who could pay for a wedding and I refuse. 

i think a lot of weddings can be ridiculous. I get embarrassed being the center of attention and I’m not bridal. I thwarted two shower and batcheloretts planning attempts bc I hate that crap. ny FI’s mom is sad she can’t be there so she’s throwing an engagement party with 60 of my FI’s friends and family who I do not know. I am really afraid people will be mean to me bc of my elopement choice or ask about my parents at which I will burst into tears. welcome to my own personal hell. 

I will be thinking of you no doubt about it.

Post # 17
Member
29 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2018

You’re not alone. I feel that way too. I compromised with my fiance. Now we’re having a small wedding. 

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