Post # 1
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Bumble Beekeeper
I’ve been avoiding the Bee for a few days because of my last thread and ignorant people, but I thought I’d pop on tonight because I’m a bundle of nerves. We went to the venue tonight to set up everything. I’d post some pictures of that, but my aunt has my camera.
I’m sure its normal, but I’ve been so stressed all day. I first had a tantrum in a store when we had to go get some last minute things and it wasn’t working out. And then I got upset with my parents at the venue (they’ve been divorced for 12 years and still act immature around each other) and almost cried again. Then I actually did cry when we went to dinner and my brother started nagging me about my choice in restaurant. Then one of my bridesmaids texts me at 9pm to tell me she suddenly realizes she doesnt have money to pay for her makeup that she’s known about for 5 months. To top it off I’ve had a headache all day.
Hoping everything goes well tomorrow though. I’m honestly not nervous about the getting married at all, I’m just nervous about all the small things. Oh well. I’m still excited!
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
allyfally: Take it easy and just breathe!
My bridesmaids realized the DAY OF the wedding that they didn’t have bra’s that worked with their backless dresses after a year to figure it out! My grandparents got food poisoning the night before the wedding and the honeymoon flights were changed due to plane dysfunctions. Whats the point of me telling you this? Well, the wedding was perfect and I wouldn’t have changed a thing!
The wedding is going to be great and you are going to be able to end the day with your HUSBAND 🙂
Post # 3
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Busy bee
- Wedding: November 2014 - 11/15/14-Vineyard
Well congrats, take a long hot bath if you can. It will all work out! Just tune everyone out if you have to.
Im excited for you. Share pics when it’s all over!!
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
I’m excited for you! Yay! And I can’t wait for pics 🙂 Go get some sleep woman!
Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
allyfally: I’ve been avoiding the Bee for a few days because of my last thread and ignorant people,
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Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
Payless: Oh I know I need to calm down. My brain just has approximately 2652957 running through it. Haha.
MrsTtoB: Thanks!
boogiewoogies: I need to! I cant sleep. I think I’ve gotten 8 hours of sleep in the last 2 days.
Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
julies1949: Not really looking for any support, just stating facts.
Post # 8
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Busy bee
- Wedding: September 2014 - Stevens Estate
allyfally: don’t worry…your going to have an awesome day! Your marrying the man you love..what’s more awesome than that! Don’t stress to much and just focus on the good things. Your wedding will kick ass! Post pics after! I love post wedding pics onhere
Post # 9
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Worker bee
allyfally: HUGS girl! Yes, people are so dumb sometimes (even parents), but the bottom line is tomorrow you get to marry the man of your dreams!! 🙂
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Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
CalOilerGurl: Getting married is the only thing I’m not worrying about! I just have all these irrational fears. Haha. My brain is a constant “what if I fall? What if I start stuttering? What if the officiant doesn’t even show? What my cake baker gets lost?” Haha.
Post # 12
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Helper bee
Haha just rememebr even if all of those things happen, you will still be married!! Real life has speed bumps and pot holes..you will be fine, get some sleep and enjoy your day!
allyfally:
Post # 13
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Sugar bee
allyfally: Even if you stutter the wedding will be perfect 🙂
My husband told a joke and I snorted during our vow exchnge! Your going to look back and wonder why you were ever nervous! I am sure the whole day will go naturally!
Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
allyfally: omg it’s time?? Yeah girl!!!! Go get em!! A million congratulations!!!!
Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper
Rest up and have a wonderful day!
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