- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
I think he is playing me like a deck of cards. Well not in a bad way but I am starting to think that his poor hiding skills etc… is all part of his humongous plan.
Here are the facts:
-Back in early this year during a bad waiting day and lots of crying, he told me (to calm me down) that he has this amazing plan on how to propose to me. To be patient and trust him. He said that I have to be in the right mind frame and there will be some teasing etc… He said that he wants us to have an amazing proposal story.
– he gets me to make a collage of scenic pictures and my favourite views and to e-mail it to him.
– 2 months ago he tells me that he started working on it. He knows I am a snoop and I haven’t been able to find anything anywhere.
– Fast forward to last two weeks. I see a text between him and his sister that he bought the ring and that he doesn’t know how he will propose, he might go out and plan something or just wait for a perfect moment. He never deleted this text and left it be, knowing that we read eachothers phones
– Meantime I see that all histories in I-pad, computer have been deleted… every day. And some google chrome login and passwords that he never had before.
Last weekend if you read it here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/it-almost-happened-yesterday I thought it was it. It was so freaking obvious. This huge ring box in his pocket etc…
I kinda now think that if i did open the ring box, it was propably empty.
I told him also something to let him know that he is being tooobvious and he might not surprise me as much as he wanted to here http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/i-had-to-say-something-to-help-the-guy
This week so far sucks. We barely spent time together due to him working etc… he doesn’t seam to feel bad about it like normally he would. He seams a bit content ??? I have shown on few texts now about how i think this week blows and how i am almost ready to cry and he seams to be “ok and content”. I told him that I just don’t understand how he almost proposed on Sunday and now this week just seam so harsh and i am unable to get his attention.
And during this text it hit me like thunder. I think this is all part of his big plan! Why would he tell me of this huge big proposal and then wait for just a moment ?
It turns out I know nothing and all those clues I think i am so smart to get, are just planted for me to find! He is way way too sneaky!