- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
SOme bees may know that I was probably not going to have one. I didnt see the point of it(didnt understand it), and had no close family relatives that could put one together. My mom lives far away(havent seen her in like 2-3 years though we talk ) and my one aunt just moved states away, so the only other people who if they wanted to give me a wedding shower, would be my Maid/Matron of Honor and my BM’s, which are mostly FSIL’s. And Im not that close to them yet, so I wasnt expecting one.
So anway,I wasnt expecting one and I know I would have survived if I didnt have one. I wouldnt be disappointed or upset. I know brides who didnt have one and it worked out fine for them. 🙂
My Fiance and I were at my FSIL’s house hanging out,when the conversation turned to our up and coming wedding. My Future Sister-In-Law asked me if my mom or other female relative was going to do a wedding shower for me. I said no. As soon as my 2 FSIL’s found out that no one was doing a wedding shower for me, they asked for my guest list and started planning one right in front of me! And they also asked what kind of bachelorette party I wanted. I was blown away.I hope I can give them the best bridesmaids gifts. They are so thoughtful!
Well, now that I will be having one, Im excited! I changed my mind on the whole idea. 🙂