(Closed) “I’m going to invite them, then” VENT

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Who is paying for the wedding?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

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@KatyElle: <


Good Question

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yeah but the fact that they are putting a good bit of money towards it means they get to change their mind and pretty much do what they want in the end. 

Doesn’t suck any less but based on the finances partially coming from them, he can do this if he wants to. 

 

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Buzzing Beekeeper

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@CherryWaves: Yeah I don’t know, if my parents were funding the open bar (expensive!), entertainment and my dress I’d let the 2 guest thing go. It’s really not that big a deal in the overall wedding is it? 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

It’s only two more people. At this point in the planning process, this close to the wedding, you cannot sweat the small stuff like this. Everything will be fine! Yes, it is the principle of the matter but you can’t let these things get to you or it will drive you crazy! Are those two people really going to make that big of a difference on your day? No. It will be all about you and your DH, so just keep that in mind and don’t get too hung up over this!

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Blushing bee

You let let the little things like this get to you, you are going to be pulling your hair out by the wedding.  Since he is paying for a big portion of the wedding, I would just let it go and be the better person.

Good luck!

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