Post # 17
First of all, congratulations! I’m so excited for you!
I think the glamping idea is lovely, especially since there is such a strong tie to a fabulous lesbian romance in the area. Since it will be her birthday, I would bring the proposal up that way. Have your picnic all set up, and towards the end ask her if she’s enjoying her birthday so far. When she says yes, tell her you have something that might make it even better. Pull out the ring and make your speech at that point. Or, you could give it to her as a birthday present. Something like that could be cute. I think that no matter what, it’s going to be special. Good luck!
Post # 18
What if she proposes tomorrow? Sorry that’s all I can think about…
Post # 19
Then she proposes 2moz and the world goes on and I get to give her an amazing bithday and engagement ring. Either way, the other partner has to find a nice moment to give the other a ring. We discussed it ages ago and agreed this is what we’d do. So even if she proposes to me 2moz, I still have to create a nice moment to give her a ring and make it official. We’re both going to wear an engagement ring. We’re kind of free wheeling on this one as there isn’t really any given ettiquette for who proposes in a lesbian relationship. I feel the time is right and I want to propose, if she gets there first, then it’s awesome to know we are totally on the same page and I’ll turn my special glamping trip in to the moment I give her the matching ring. If not, I will propose in January. If we spent our whole relationship worrying the other might propose 2moz and so holding off, then I’d worry we’d die unmarried to eachother 🙂 We have a running joe that when we discuss marriage, we say “oh is this the proposal?!” as we find it kinda funny we have no idea who will propose first. XD