(Closed) I’m gonna have a panic attack! Rant!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

is there anyway you can get a doc or a friend who is not in the wedding party to help you out the day of?

Post # 5
188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009


The time is sneaking up on us.  

I would mention to the caterer that the $1.00 per/glass fee was not in the original BEO.  We are paying extra to have real glasses and it is $1.00 per glass but plastic glasses were included.  Maybe since it was not in the original BEO it can be waived.

That is bad news about the diagram.  Sorry to hear that.  We were given ours months ago and we had it rearranged after our final guest count with a turn around in about 24 hours for the new diagram.  Do you not have one coordinator for you venue that you deal with that can address this issue?  

As far as security does the venue offer any?  We had to pay a security fee at our venue which help eliminates some of the issues your mother is bringing up. Perhaps you should ask about security.  Do you have a bridal room at the venue that can only be accessed by the bridal party?

You are not to sensitive you like me just want to have everything done the weekend before the wedding and just enjoy your wedding day.  

Good luck!

Post # 6
188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Another note the coordinator at the venue is setting up our place cards and favors maybe you could find out if your venue offers that service with your rental.

Post # 7
2365 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Weee… relax =) I am the weekend after you!!!!!!!! Congrats. Everything will be ok.

Post # 9
4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would try to get a friend to play DOC for the day! Take a deep breath and PLEASE don’t have a panic attack. i had my first one EVER a couple of weeks ago and it was the most horrible thing I’ve ever experienced.

Post # 10
234 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Ok – so maybe you don’t have any close friends, but do you know anyone well enough to ask them to be a DOC and pay them something for doing it?  You could make a list of everything that needs to be done that day and the time table and then all they would have to do is make it happen – if they do it well, give them a little extra and if not, just give them what you agreed on.  Unless you can afford to get a DOC?  Where do you live and I’ll come take care of everything for you! Maybe THAT should have been my “what I would do if I didn’t have to work” post!

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