(Closed) I’m grumpy and stressed.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Awww bakerella, at least its almost over!! I had 4 BMs, and they did about 80%,10%,5%,5%, of the work.  My BFF did so much, my sister was next, then my other Boyfriend or Best Friend (but in her defense she was planning her mothers entire wedding by herself so she had an excuse) and my other friend did nothing but show up to the bridal shower and the wedding.  It was ridiculous. So sorry she is being this way, maybe you can go on endless.com and find a pair that YOU like and offer to buy them for her and then return them after she wears them (I know, you shouldn’t do that but just a suggestion). Or even better – find ones YOU like so you can have them after the wedding (if you are the same size)!  Or try to sell them on here… What color do you want? I know it sucks, girls can be such bitches, and its your wedding so they shouldn’t be like this right?? Totally sucks, nothing you can do about it, but at least you only have a couple more weeks to deal with it and then you can take a hiatus from dealing with them for a while afterwards

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

hugs 🙁   xoxoxo

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@bakerella: Boo, no one should have to deal with that kind of acting up ever, but especially not 2 weeks out. Maybe she’s jealous? Maybe she’s crabby about something else and is taking it out on you? Who knows. 🙁 Take a day or so before you e-mail her back again, so you can take the high road after you cool down. I’d be upset right now, too!

I like @MrsSl82be’s suggestion about finding shoes you can re-sell or something… I’m so sorry your Bridesmaid or Best Man is being a non-helpful friend right now!

 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

@bakerella: this girl sounds like a pill.  i also think she might have told you how much the shoes cost as her way of saying she’ll take you up on that offer to pay for them.  how many BMs total do you have?

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

are these like purple shoes or something?

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

you know…i only have 15 pairs of shoes…and I still have red shoes.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Sounds like you are handling it the right way. I’m sorry you have someone else dumping her self-centered negativity all over you right now. It’s your day, and it’s a good thing it sounds like you have other people in your wedding party who can remember that and not make it all about themselves!

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