(Closed) I'm I pressure him too much??

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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4950 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I would not talk about it for a while. Give it a bit, then ask him a general time line for when he would like to get married, not for when he plans to ask you. It sounds to me like he’s thinking about it, but may not have any solid plans just yet. 

Post # 4
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3136 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

You guys are on the same page. Let it be for a bit. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m willing to bet if he tells you it won’t be this year, he isn’t doing it to throw you off.  I would back off and wait awhile.  Talking about it is MUCH different than actually deciding you want to and are ready to commit your life to one person.  It sounds like he probably needs more time.

 

Post # 6
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1541 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Part of me thinks he’s planning something and doesn’t want to give it away by talking about it, so he freezes up. Maybe he’s been planning something? I’d give it a couple months and see what happens

Post # 9
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1541 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@ArmyBeee:  haha once you become a waiting bee you over analyze EVERYTHING!! I really hope it’s the surprise you want, but you’re right, it could be anything. There are many stories on the board of girls thinking it will be *that surprise* but then it isn’t and they’re dissapointed. Just try not to get your hopes up.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Seems like you’re on the same page. I’d stop bringing it up, he may be planning something. Let him do his thing without pushing. 

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