(Closed) I'm in engagement limbo!

posted 6 years ago in Engagement
Post # 2
1423 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

If you’ve both agreed to eloping in Vegas than you’re indeed engaged. Congrats bee! If he gives you a surprise ring that’s sweet and if he doesn’t then you can pick something out together wherever. But first and foremost enjoy your holiday to the west coast and let things happen naturally! (I know us planner types like to know what’s going on but it’s worth it for a “surprise” of a lifetime) Would love to be there right about now lol New Yorker here and it’s been miserable here the past few days *sigh* get some warm sun for me! xx

Post # 4
1936 posts
Buzzing bee

Sounds very promising but before you get too excited sit down and make sure he is really serious in the elopement. You don’t want to get let down if he isnt as keen now he’s had time to think more. Sounds very promising though! 

Post # 6
329 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Aw, congrats! It sounds like he plans to propose during your trip, which is very sweet. It kind of makes it difficult for you, though, because how do you know what to pack! I would say go ahead and buy a dress, but maybe try to opt for something that could also be used for another occassion instead of the traditional long white dress. If you really want a traditional dress, perhaps find a way to drop him a strong hint that you want to wear such a dress in your (hypothetical) wedding. 

I empathize with you on the engagement limbo. My SO bought my engagement ring last weekend, and we picked it up from the store together just a few days ago. It has been sitting on the counter…just waiting. I think he’s waiting until our anniversary, which is in two months. Knowing it’s going to happen but not being able to announce it and jump into engagement mode is tough. Hang in there! Have fun in Vegas 🙂 

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