(Closed) Im Irritated, I feel like were put on the back burner…

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
2288 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I’m so sorry ((HUGS))

Is there someone you can talk to to voice your concerns? Because they’re certainly valid. Barring that, do you have a wedding party and if so, is there someone in the wedding party that can take the reins?

Post # 4
2641 posts
Sugar bee

Wow, so your church actually plans showers for people?  That’s kind of nice (in general) but also a lot of work.  You think that it’s because you’re already married.  I guess I can’t comment on that.  It might be, might not.  Perhaps they’re flaky?  Maybe they do this type of thing to everyone?  Or maybe it’s a bad year or time of year for them?

I think if they are going to cause you this much trouble you should probably just tell them “thanks but no thanks” to the shower.  Just see if you can get someone else to throw a shower.

Sorry.  Good luck.

Post # 5
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I would have probably said, “thanks but no thanks” to the shower at this point. It sounds as if they are taking advantage of the fact that you are already married. Though it’s really sweet that they want to throw you a shower, it’s now become a burden on you, and you have every right to let them know that you’re just not interested in it anymore.

Post # 7
3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

ouch.. i would just not answer their questions or calls regarding the shower in particular. It’s not very nice to cancel on you, what, 4 times?  Grr

Post # 8
45 posts
  • Wedding: May 2010

By this point I personally wouldn’t even want their party anymore. I’m sorry you have to deal with all that. πŸ™

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