(Closed) I'm jealous and annoyed rant

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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423 posts
Helper bee

Maybe he thought you wouldn’t be able to handle the hot and heavy deatils while you were at work? Or could be that he was too busy to reply? Did you ask him about it when you had a quiet moment? Is he still refusing to divulge?

Post # 4
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174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

it could be possible that as you are a little upset over your hens night that things that dont normally bother you so much do so now.

you said you trust him etc so stand by your convictions and dont question him about his bucks.

honestly i think a boy is allowed a few secrets and so are us girls. it would have just been a stripper or something, who cares.

everything always seems better the next day hugs 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

Honestly I could care less about a bachelorrette party I just want to marry my fiance. If my friends do anything great, if not meh dont care.

Post # 6
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3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I”m glad you aren’t saying anything to your friend.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@nikstar:  

you said you trust him etc so stand by your convictions and dont question him about his bucks.

honestly i think a boy is allowed a few secrets and so are us girls. it would have just been a stripper or something, who cares.

 

I agree with this.  First, trying to communicate the details of the night through text message is hard, so I don’t blame him for not responding this way.  If you still want to talk to him about it, ask in person.  Just don’t ask tainted questions… if there’s a chance you aren’t going to like the answer, don’t ask!

And yes, boys will have their stupid secrets.  As long as you trust him, that’s all that matters.  Don’t sweat it!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

1. Don’t say anything, ever, to your friend.  She tried to plan you a good night and obviously cares for you.  Sometimes it’s about the intention, not the execution.

2.  Be grumpy, but be grumpy privately and then get over it and move on.

3.  Drop it with your Fiance.  It’s not his fault or anyone else’s fault that his night was “better” than your night.  He can’t change it.  Change your mindset and be happy for him that he has great friends that planned such a fab night for him. 

4.  Even in relationships, it’s healthy to not share every. little. detail.  You said you trust him, so trust him and drop it.  He had a good time.  Don’t stress.   I can say that for myself, if my partner asked me what we did, I’d give the highlights and say we had a great time.  If he dug further, I’d wonder why, be slightly annoyed that he was digging for dirt and I’d then give him the full itinerary of exactly what happend for every moment of the evening….just to make a point.

 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Did you tell him that you didn’t have the time you hoped at your party? He may have been quiet on his night because he didn’t want to upset you further. 

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