(Closed) I'm jealous of pregnant women

posted 5 years ago in Babies
Post # 17
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

smoocherific:  Hugs to you. There are no words to make it better. I hope your rainbow baby comes soon!  The four months between my MC and this pregnancy were so so hard and two weeks after our loss my SIL announced she was due with a surprise baby the same week as my original due date. 

Post # 18
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Busy bee

Thank you.

Ya I can’t handle seeing them. Fi is doing OK trying to shield me but it’s like..spring and no more big coats and they are everywhere, and strollers are everywhere.  I can’t go anywhere. I’m still bleeding so maybe shock, hormones, grief..I don’t know. I can’t handle seeing them and feeling the cramps and pad between my legs. 

We won’t try for another for at least three months. Hopefully by them I’m healed emotionally and physically. 

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I’ve always wanted to be a mom really badly too so I feel your pain! My Fiance and I plan on starting to try a month before our wedding as we know it may take a while to conceive, which will be a year from next month. So our TTC will start a year from this month which is crazy to think about for me. I’ve waited and worked so hard to try and find a really good man who I know will be an amazing father and now that I’ve finally found him I just want to start our lives together. He is the love of my life and I couldn’t be happier!

This chapter in my life that I’ve dreamed about for so long is now so close and I just want it to start now lol but since it is still a year away and we still have a whole wedding to plan, I keep it at the back of my mind for now. I am definitely enjoying my time with my fiance, just him and I before a baby comes into the picture. But I’m excited that it will be coming soon! Just hang in there and it will come. And when it does, it will make it that much sweeter 🙂

Post # 20
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I went thru a time at 26-27 years old where I had baby fever. My fiance wasn’t ready for a baby and he told me so. Since he wasn’t ready I waited and focused on other fun things happening in life, and was living in the moment. I knew it would take him awhile to come around to even the idea of having a baby. So I waited….and waited… and would casually bring it up maybe 1x a year, but no fights about it. Then one cool fall day when I was 33 years old, yes I’m that patient, and he was 34 he said, “I’m ready to be a dad, it’s now or never” I had warned him since we waited it may be difficult, but I was more than ready to try. I started tracking my cycles, using ovulation test kits, etc… every month I got my period it was a little upsetting but we didn’t give up. 7 cycles later, we got a BFP. We are now 25 weeks pregnant and getting the nursery ready together, we bought a new car a year ago and he said this was part of the plan he had, he’s ready and he is so very supportive. If you truly love your man, just wait. Hopefully he has some hidden plan like mine did of what he wanted us as a family to look like. He is super involved and I’m so content, relaxed, and enjoying being pregnant without hardly a care or worry in the world. It’s beautiful. I hope whatever decision you make that your dream of becoming a mom comes true. ♡

Post # 21
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Helper bee

Jellie over here! I call myself the last of the mohegans because all of my friends have kids now. Im getting married in June and my Fiance has a son (3yo) but unfortunately for me it is not the same because he is not my biological son. I want to be pregnant and have a baby of my own to care for . But right now i watch my best friend coo over her 4month old as well as my cousins new baby girl, also 4 months. pure torture i tell u!

Post # 24
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2006

aww no your post didn’t upset me but 1. Let me get it off my chest as I still can’t handle it and 2. A reminder to be thankful for what I have got which is an awesome husband and two babies in the form of our rescue dogs xxxA

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Post # 25
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

smoocherific:  our loss was the day before Thanksgiving and it just killed me to see all the Carter’s Mommy’s Thankful for Me onesies on all the sweet new babies all over my facebook feed. That sucked. And all the Babies in strollers at the Zoo Lights. It’s hard. I hope your TTC break gives you the time and space you need to heal and hope again. 

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