Post # 1
I can’t find pleasure in any type of sexual act. I never get horny anymore and I am not a fan of my husband touching my boobs/butt. I am not on birth control or anything so I am just asking for help to get back in the mood! I seriously do not know what is wrong with me and I think I am thinking baout it too much that it is stressing me out. I even will allow him to do it one night and then I am relieved that I do not have to do it again for another few days. I have talked to him about it and he is so sweet and will try to go slow and see if I can get in the mood but I just cant! HELP!
Post # 3
Seriously, talk to your Dr. (gyn) about this. It may be hormonal!
Post # 4
@tennislove: Maybe a spa weekend would relax you a litlle ? Some romantic out of town trip with your hubby ? Maybe you should watch some videos ?
Post # 5
It sounds you need to have a chat with your doctor. It could be something hormonal, or an underlying infection, or depression.
There are thirty billion reasons why your libido could simply tank. Go have a chat with your doc.
Post # 6
Are you on any medication? That could be affecting your drive.
I rarely initiate sex, for me, it started as a pain thing and I wanted to avoid it at all costs. Now things are getting a bit better, but in general, I have a low sex drive.
Have you considered purchasing fun things to change things up a little? That could be an idea that you enjoy with your husband.
For me what helped was talking with my therapist, gyno, and actually, my Mom was very helpful too.
I try to be more open to the idea and try not to stress about it.