(Closed) I'm just not into it anymore

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
2959 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Seriously, talk to your Dr. (gyn) about this. It may be hormonal!

Post # 4
1311 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@tennislove:  Maybe a spa weekend would relax you a litlle ? Some romantic out of town trip with your hubby ? Maybe you should watch some videos ?


Post # 5
9115 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

It sounds you need to have a chat with your doctor. It could be something hormonal, or an underlying infection, or depression.

There are thirty billion reasons why your libido could simply tank. Go have a chat with your doc.

Post # 6
1569 posts
Bumble bee

Are you on any medication? That could be affecting your drive.

I rarely initiate sex, for me, it started as a pain thing and I wanted to avoid it at all costs. Now things are getting a bit better, but in general, I have a low sex drive.

Have you considered purchasing fun things to change things up a little? That could be an idea that you enjoy with your husband. 

For me what helped was talking with my therapist, gyno, and actually, my Mom was very helpful too. 

I try to be more open to the idea and try not to stress about it. 

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