(Closed) im just really hurt and angry right now

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Awwww! I’m so sorry that your Maid/Matron of Honor did that to you, that really really sucks! Maybe you should sit down and air your feelings with her, that way you won’t have any lingering resentments on your wedding day!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@stephanie63087: ๐Ÿ™ I’m so sorry to hear this.  I can’t believe someone would take on this responsibility and then completely dismiss everything.  I hope that everything is worked out in due time.  You don’t need this unnecessary stress or treatment.

Post # 5
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5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

I’m sorry you feel like your Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t doing her part.  As hard as it is to not be angry, try not to let it effect your friendship.  Best wishes and HUGS!

Post # 7
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5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i’d be most upset about her lying to your mom.  and i definitely wouldn’t be able to bite my tongue.  it’s only going to get worse if you don’t say something. be careful how you word it though, of course.

Post # 8
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511 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

it seems like she’s more concerned with the details of her own wedding to tear away from yours.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Aww sorry you are going through this, I would probably say something to her.  Let her know that she needs to step up and help if she says she is gonna and finding some games for a wedding shower is not that hard or time consuming seeing as your mom only asked her to find games not actually get stuff for games.

Post # 11
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Gosh I’m sorry this stinks. I had similar issues with broken promises from one of my bridesmaids (DH’s sister) It makes you so upset. Deep breaths. Let it go and move forward. Do you want me to send your mom some games ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 12
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5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

yeah!! we can come up with some games!!!

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2012

๐Ÿ™ I’m sorry you’re having a rough time with your Maid/Matron of Honor.  I likely would have been in the same position had I not switched my Maid/Matron of Honor last minute (before telling anyone, fortunately).  I probably wouldn’t have the guts to say anything, but I know that you probably should mention it.  Otherwise, you might be thinking about it on your wedding day– not good.  Let us know if you want shower games!  I know us bees can come through for you!!!!!

Post # 16
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Once I took pictures of famous couples and mounted them on card stock. I then added numbers to the top of each. Everything from Joe D’Magio and Marilyn Monroe to Seal and Heidi and even did some couple from a teeny bopper movie to cover everyone at the shower. We also did pictures of my grandmother and grandfathers wedding as a little trick. We did 20 pictures. People had to write their guesses of the couples on the lines and wether, they were married, divorced, or dating. We were able to just pass them around so people could still enjoy themselves, but also worked as a good ice breaker for strangers. The answers were then read while the bride was opening gifts.

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