(Closed) I’m kinda annoyed with our jeweler…

posted 8 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m like you.  I probably would have just let it go but this is your wedding ring.. you shouldn’t pay for something you don’t love!  Go for something you like!  Ask your fiance to call for you, I’d have mine call Tongue out

Post # 4
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1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

The important question is, did you sign a paper that had the specs of the ring he ordered and the price?  Did you sign anything at all?  If not, you’re under no obligation to buy, and you can just walk away.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Also I highly recommend NOT to get a white gold wedding band!  I found out the hard way just how fast white gold turns yellow with age.  Sitting right next to your platinum band, it won’t look good.

Post # 6
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1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@jenbrandner – it might be more difficult to walk away because the jewler used her 10 diamonds that she will need to get back if she decides not to take the ring.

 

@rachel077 – I personally would go into the store in person with your fiance and discuss the situation with the jeweler.  Maybe you’ll be surprised when you see the ring and you’re like it.  If not, you can identify specifically what you want changed.

Post # 7
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2867 posts
Sugar bee

I think this jeweler is shady.  I know this sucks but at this point, I’d cut my losses and look for a new jeweler with this ring and have a new one made.  Maybe the new jeweler can melt this ring down into a pendant.

Post # 8
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988 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

why did he get to keep the diamonds though?

Post # 10
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937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

you need to put your foot down.. i know its hard… i would get my partner to do it for me as i’m the same as you and hate being in situations like this. But like everyone has said its YOUR wedding band… this is something that is going to be on you for life, so you have to make sure its what YOU want.

Post # 11
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455 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Hmm that’s really odd and not normal practice for jewelers. I don’t understand why he would think that was acceptable. 

Post # 12
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536 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think you definatly need to say something!  If you did not sign any papers there is no way he should have made the ring!  Go to the jewler and talk with him face to face.  If he knows your mom I am sure he doesn’t want any hard feelings either!  Good luck!

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