(Closed) I'm miserable and sick of waitingggg!!!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - Rock Hill Country Club, Manorville NY

Frown I’m sorry… know how you feel.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

We’ve all been there…… still there.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I am sorry, I have been there. When I was going through it, I really thought I was alone in the world. I didnt realize that so many other woman were feeling what I felt. 

I hope he pops the question soon. Good luck! 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

There was a bee on here that, after a long while ofback and forth (8 years if I rememebr correctly) went out, bought a ring, and said “We’re getting married. And that’s that”  I could never do that, but I think of how cool she wasand how sometimes I get close to that ๐Ÿ˜›

 

 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I know exactly what your feeling!!!  I mean my bf loves me and cares deeply for me but why haven’t he done the deed yet???  It is so frusterating and i just want to wear his ring to be his forever but nooooo he wait wait wait.  I am hopeing this weekend but i dont get a good vibe on that right now.  I am almost ready to give up!!!  Yes i am venting a little but i feel like i am all alone in this and Why is he going so damn slow????  It not like we are getting married untill 2014 and i am desperately want to try on gowns so badly.  ( forgot to mention the 166lbs weight loss and in addition awesome tummy tuck)  So i want to feel beautiful in a gown and wow him.  arrghh anyone else feeling like this???

 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@killerQueen13:  Hang in there, you’ll be sooo happy you did Wink

 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@killerQueen13:  Hang in there buddy! We all have our days. If he knows you are in waiting mode and you’ve had discussions, maybe he’s planning something that you don’t know about? Maybe he wants to do it when you least expect it! My SO is like that. But I’m expecting it because Im at that age and the last to get married… so I get that side of the arguement too! Just hang in there. You can do it. It’ll be worth the wait. and if you feel really really down, think of me and my 7 years. ๐Ÿ™‚ Just remember how much you love him. Good things come to those who wait, it’ll be worth it when it happens. Before you know it, you will be asking to be taken off the list!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

Hey Waiting Twin!  I’m sick of it too.  And we’re prepping for the move across the country on Tuesday together.  I was sorta kinda hoping we’d be engaged by now so I wouldn’t have to do the whole “moving for my boyfriend” conversation with everyone.  My boss even announced that I was leaving to move with my boyfriend and I have no future job in the wings.  Awesome.  It just sounds so immature and I feel like it sets off the wrong vibe completely.

 

I’m glad that I’m not waiting alone.  Even so, it majorly sucks.  

 

Post # 12
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Blushing bee

And me too! Though we haven’t been dating as long as you all have (9 months now), we’re both in our 30s…he’s almost 36 and we’re in love. What’s the hold up? It’s hard for me to keep my patience sometimes, I really really really struggle with it…I don’t want to be in my mid 30s when I get married.  I want to be married to him SOON.  For all I know though, he has bought a ring and is waiting to propose, but I really don’t think he has.  So it’s a waiting game for me…and he knows that after our 1 year anniversary I will be bringing it up if it hasn’t happened yet (we had this discussion a few months ago, and he agreed that it was fair)

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

Story of my life. We’ve been dating 9 years in October. Went to look at rings back in January. He feels a couple should agree on engagement, look at rings, and then never talk about it until he proposes…THIS IS DIFFICULT!

I have been given a timeline of 3 years…and that’s only because he doesn’t want to give me a sooner timeline, to throw me off, so I have NO idea.

Very frustrating…very, very.

He is going to be long distance for 5 months starting in August. Maybe he will surprise me? God, I sure hope so… 

It would make the long distance part go by faster!

Post # 15
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Blushing bee

@killerQueen13:  Oh the “boyfriend” word…ya, that’s getting old. Especially when introducing him! Makes me want to cringe…

 

Post # 16
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Busy bee

@killerQueen13:  don’t lose hope, i’ve been waiting for over a year and i’ll prob wait for another year. But, in my eye, we’re already married, and for now, thats enough, I know it’s exciting to plan a huge party and invite your family and friends. i hope you get the ring soon =)

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