Post # 1
and i don’t want to be! How do you bee’s control yourself from throwing a mental temper tantrum when your SO says something you don’t want to hear or when things go your way. I’m not usually moody (actually like never), but i’m not about to let my stupid attitude get in the way of enjoying my holiday.
Post # 3
I’m sorry you are feeling moody. Is it something serious or just a little thing that’s bugging you?
Post # 4
@MrsSaltWaterTaffy: something small. Like I wanted him to open his presents with just me this morning but he’s waiting to open them in front of his family and I think it might be weird him having like three from me and everyone else none. Otherwise just stupid little small things making me irritated. Maybe it’s me getting used to my new BC pill.
Post # 5
It’s possible! BC can really mess with you.
Post # 6
@SweetRose2011: You aren’t the only one!! lol I had to work so hard to get myself out of a funk yesterday because Christmas wasn’t happening the way I wanted it to for our first Christmas together. And it was pretty much little things like my niece singing in a couple of services for a church close to her so that meant they couldn’t come to my parents house for Christmas like usual. We ended up going there and they have 2 cats…. I’m allergic to cats….
I knew I was being irrational though, so I just really shook myself and told myself to start being happy. Pretty soon I was able to genuinely BE happy! It just took a few internal pep talks! lol
Post # 7
That happens to me all the time (in fact just last night!). Its hard especially when you know its silly and don’t want to make a big deal about it, but it just doesn’t stop you from being moody. Just remember to keep things in perspective and to look at the bigger picture. And a helping of fro-yo always helps me calm down. Happy Holidays & I hope everything worked out okay!
Post # 8
I’m usually a very moody person, and even moreso today. I usually just have to fight my way thru it and not let the mood take over and ruin the day. I struggle with it, but even today, altho I want to be seriously moody I’ve recognized the feeling and instead pushed it back and tried to be happy and easy going instead. It’s worked so far, you just have to own it then turn it back into a better mood. If that makes sense.
Post # 9
I’ve been sick since Tuesday which caused us to cancel all holiday plans. I was really bummed because I was going to see familhy and friends I haven’t seen for awhile and I felt I left FH down (even though he told me a 1,000x that I shouldn’t feel bad). However, I have had quite a few Christmases that have been WAAAY worse, so I just kept reminding myself of that and things like, I am thankful I have a home, a job, the upcoing wedding, FH and I are together, etc.
Post # 10
I repeat “cheer up buttercup” until I feel better.