Post # 1
Hi everyone! I’ve been on the bee before under a diffrent name and kinda stopped stalking everyone because I got married and things were crazy. But now I’m back and am happy, this is an awesome place to ask people questions about ANYTHING and get an honest answer without being to harsh. So anyways, I said I got married but I actually just got divorced after less then 2 years. Ive had a lot to deal with this past summer, My brother and father both passed away in a month and just a couple months later my husband left me, I’ve learned to take everything as a blessing and see the good in it. If none of this happened, my 2 passed family members would still be living and suffering. ( they both suffered from sever depression and substance abuse) and i wouldn’t be where I am now. You see, my relationship before was very controlling and my ex was very involved in a religion i didnt really appreciate, but becuse he left me i was able to find myself, move on with my life, move to chicago where I’ve always wanted to live, and i fell in love again with my high school sweetheart who supports me and loves me and his fmaily actually loves me too! I’m so happy with everything and cant wait to start back on the bee. 🙂
Post # 3
@piticuta: wow, that’s a lot to take in! I totally get the compounded tragedy thing, I had a year full of it about 4 years ago, my step-father abandoned us and we lost our house to his gambling addiction, my grandfather died, my aunt was diagnosed with cancer and then died, my step/mother had a major heart attack and I was starting my undergraduate degree. During all this I was also living between three houses my nan, my dad and my bf (now fiance) I’m just starting to work through everything now – I’ve been in denial about how it impacted on me and my life. I’m glad it happened though, because otherwise if and I wouldn’t have been in such a high pressure situation so soon and we might not be together still 🙂
Anyway, just wanted to say congratulations on finding a positive light to focus on throughout this, and I hope you get to experience so much with your new found love and happiness in a place you’ve always loved!
Post # 4
I’m sorry you had to go through that…but I’m glad you’re staying positive…and welcome back!
Post # 5
@AlmostMrsShield: when it rains it pours right? but their usually a rainbow at the end 🙂
@hazyleyedbeauty: And thank you! good to be back 🙂
Post # 6
@piticuta: Welcome back! Like you I was on here before (my marriage lasted less than a year) and I got a new screen name and started fresh! I have been with my current SO & love of my life for 2 years and couldn’t be happier.
Everything happens for a reason! I’m glad you are happy being you and happy in love again! Welcome back to the Bee!
Post # 7
- Wedding: October 2013 - Tybee Island, GA
Wow; that’s inspiring though:)
Through all the hardships you faced in the past year, you’ve come back, and you are still able to love. most people after what you went through would be down and depressed and having an F the world kind of attitude!
YOU GO, BEE
Post # 8
@Bazinga: first off bazinga like in the show the big bang theory??? LOVE it even if its not but yay! yay for new found love and happieness, its amazing how much better things are when you’re with the right person 🙂 im happy YOUR happy 🙂
@gigglebox: Thank you so much 🙂