Post # 1
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Busy bee
My sister just imform me she’s also getting married on that date! If it was someone I know that I’m not too close with, I would’ve said “screw it”. But it’s my sister and there’s no way I’m gonna deny my dad the chance to escort her down the aisle. (And before any of you say anything, I do not want a double wedding!)
So now I need to scramble around to decide on a date. Yes, that means my best friend won’t be there because of her job in Hawaii. That means my fiance’s cousin can not take the day off from her job with the Yankees. Worst of all, that means I’m going to wait a little more to marry the man of my dreams.
Good thing I can switch my venue’s date and the church’s date. I’m worried about my photograher. I hope she allows us to switch the date (much less have any date in September available).
Can’t help being hormonal right now!
Post # 3
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Busy bee
@BeeRod527: I don’t understand. If you had already scheduled these things then didn’t your sister already know you and your Fiance had settled on that date? It sounds like a rather unsisterly thing to do.
I’m sorry. 🙁
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
why would your sister pick a date that you already picked?
Post # 5
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Newbee
Wow..you are a very sweet sister, but you picked that date first. Can’t your sister pick another date?
Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
Yeah…why would your sister pick the same date if you had yours first?
Post # 7
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Bumble bee
@BeeRod527: So… you had already picked you date, booked your venue and photographer, and now you are having to change your date because your sister picked the same one, after you have already picked it? I’m guessing she isn’t able to pick a different date for some reason?
Post # 8
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Busy bee
Why are you changing your date? Why isn’t she?
Post # 9
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Busy bee
This is the first time she told me her official wedding date. When she announced her engagement a few months ago, she said Spring 2014. Of course, I’m thinking it’s May or June. That gave me the green light to pick my date in July! Of course I’m a little frustrated about the situation but I can move back. I want her to be there and vise versa.
Maybe it’s a blessing because earlier today, I asked myself “why the heck did I choose July and not September for my wedding? I hate humidity with a passion!” Hopefully, I can move it without any penalty from my vendors.
Post # 10
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Busy bee
You are so kind to your sister!
Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
That’s really nice of you to move your wedding. Good luck and I hope your vendors let you switch easily! 🙂
Post # 12
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Busy bee
@BeeRod527: Maybe this will be a good thing then. Good luck!
Post # 14
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Busy bee
Update: both our venue and our photographer can change the date for us without penalty. All of August is available. So it’s either August 16 or 23 for us (the 2nd and 9th are out because of Musikfest and the 30th because of the Labor Day weekend).
Post # 15
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Busy bee
It’s officially 8/16. Don’t worry, I’ll still come around!
Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
Whoa. I would have told her to screw off. You were already engaged, you chose and announced your date, you booked stuff! How long have you been engaged? I don’t see any posts about when you got engaged.
ETA: LOL my post is really repetitive. Weird. I mean, congrats on a new date, but what I said still stands.
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