I'm not a bridesmaid but am expected to plan hen party.

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 46
2614 posts
Sugar bee

hahaha ohhh the nerve. My bridesmaids are clearly NOT going to do it, so lets just add a bunch of less important friends to the group chat and see if we can guilt trip one of them into doing it!

Even though the bride has already attempted to guilt trip you into it – with zero subtlety about it. 

Good for you for cheerfully setting boundaries. You shouldn’t punished for being an organized person.. 

Post # 47
200 posts
Helper bee

Lmao what? She can kick all the rocks. What nerve.

Post # 48
1390 posts
Bumble bee

 Putting you in a group chat, in my opinion, changes nothing.

“Sounds great guys let me know what you decide to plan and I’ll try my best to make it”  Is an excellent repsonse. Not only are you being clear you are not going to organize it, no matter how desperate ( and uncouth) this bride is, you are not even committing to showing up.

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