(Closed) I’m not even engaged and I’m already in trouble?????

posted 11 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
71 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I just tell them suck it up. If they didn’t try to be close to me before, Why do you all of a sudden care about me now?Just because of me getting married? Kinda reminds me before you get pregnant no one cares but once you get a baby bump everyone flocks. Kinda attention based in my opinion.


Just go with who YOU want and don’t let them change it. It’s your day and should stay that way

Post # 4
3218 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Ignore it.


I didn’t care if you wanted to be my Bridesmaid or Best Man, you’re not and you’re never gonna be I moved on and didn’t talk about it.

Post # 6
20 posts
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m having the same problem! Not even engaged yet, and I already have people fighting over who gets to be a bridesmaid/moh. It’s making me crazy, because I’m trying not to hurt anybody’s feelings, but I also don’t want to have a ton of bridesmaids (small wedding). I agree, weddings do make people go crazy!

Post # 7
537 posts
Busy bee

I think if they got mad and they aren’t your true best friends as you say, perhaps they have other intentions, like they just have that entitled personality and care more about themselves– but I can’t say I know this for sure!!! I just have that coming to mind… because it seems silly for them to get mad, especially if they aren’t your closest, nearest, dearest… definitely stick to your guns!

Post # 8
8 posts
  • Wedding: August 2012

That is unfortunate.  But it should reaffirm that you made the right choices in bridesmaid, and the people who are acting that way do not deserve to be!

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