Post # 1
I’ve pretty much got my bridal party chosen, based on familly and true best friends. But I’ve got girls getting their feelings hurt about my non existant wedding party before I even have a ring on my finger!!
How did all you ladies choose your ladies without all the hostility???? Weddings make people crazy!
Post # 3
I just tell them suck it up. If they didn’t try to be close to me before, Why do you all of a sudden care about me now?Just because of me getting married? Kinda reminds me before you get pregnant no one cares but once you get a baby bump everyone flocks. Kinda attention based in my opinion.
Just go with who YOU want and don’t let them change it. It’s your day and should stay that way
Post # 4
I didn’t care if you wanted to be my Bridesmaid or Best Man, you’re not and you’re never gonna be I moved on and didn’t talk about it.
Post # 5
@Meowmixsong1121: that’s so very true! haha its actually friends that have new babies that are the ones laying on the guilt trip!! Cause I’ve been helping them out and I guess “feeding the attention” myself.
I need to learn from you! I feel guilty!
Post # 6
I’m having the same problem! Not even engaged yet, and I already have people fighting over who gets to be a bridesmaid/moh. It’s making me crazy, because I’m trying not to hurt anybody’s feelings, but I also don’t want to have a ton of bridesmaids (small wedding). I agree, weddings do make people go crazy!
Post # 7
I think if they got mad and they aren’t your true best friends as you say, perhaps they have other intentions, like they just have that entitled personality and care more about themselves– but I can’t say I know this for sure!!! I just have that coming to mind… because it seems silly for them to get mad, especially if they aren’t your closest, nearest, dearest… definitely stick to your guns!
Post # 8
That is unfortunate. But it should reaffirm that you made the right choices in bridesmaid, and the people who are acting that way do not deserve to be!