(Closed) I’m not excited at all…just feeling overwhelmed.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Why did you set your date for right around finals? I think that all the stress is making you see things as worse than they are.

As far as your mom sayin things about your Mother-In-Law, it seems she is bitter about a lot of things. I would ignore her, and NOT say anything to your Fiance about what she says anymore.

Its been said before, but you can’t dictate how people spend their money. I hope that your BMs will get their act together before the wedding

Post # 4
9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

You’re almost there, dear.  Just hang on a bit longer.  You’ll make it through.  (hugs)

Post # 5
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

The end is in sight!

Everythign gets really tense and emotional before the wedding, it will probably get worse, before it gets better!

I’m sorry Fiance didn’t have anything planned for your B-day- is that unusual?

Post # 6
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Sent from my Android

Sent from my Android

Post # 7
341 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Hang in there!  It sounds like you have a lot going on.  Try not to sweat the small stuff, like petty arguments/tension coming from your mom.  Do the best you can…but don’t expect so much of yourself.  Your wedding is going to be awesome and it sounds like you deserve some ‘me time’ with a bottle of wine and a birthday cupcake!  Treat yourself and just try to relax a bit before the big day.  HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Post # 8
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

On that day, when you marry Fiance, it will all somehow seem worth it. Let the stress of everyone else and their drama go. Concentrate on school work and relaxing when you can. 

Post # 10
2065 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Oh hon hang in there. You’re so close, and these last days will fly by. And the only thing that matters is that you’ll be married to your Fiance. I know finals are stressful, just try to take it in stride and focus on the light at the end of the tunnel!

Post # 12
637 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Hey sweetie, hang in there! It does sound like you have a lot on your plate right now, but it will soon be all done. I think feeling overwhelmed is normal and that feeling usually drowns out feelings of excitement. I wouldn’t harp on the things you can’t control, like the tension between your Fiance and your mom. Just let that one go. Take some time out for yourself, even just an hour or two, go treat yourself to a movie or a walk in the park. Whatever will take your mind off things. I think you just need to clear your head and put things in perspective.

Post # 14
3799 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Take the next few days for you, and don’t pay attention to others. Concentrate on what you need to do and dont’ let other people and their attitudes get you down. Make a list of everything you have to get done, and start. Contact the BM’s with no shoes one more time and tell them that it needs to be done, yesterday.

You will finish everything. You will have a beautiful wedding. Just keep your head up and focus on what you have to do. Don’t have time to answer the phone? That’s what voicemail is for. Can’t check emails? Do it later. Pick the most important stuff and let everyone’s demands wait. You will get it done!

Post # 15
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am sorry youre stressing! It is right around the corner and when the day comes you will feel so relieved!

On another not:


It’s my daughter’s birthday today too!!! Tis a good day!  

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