(Closed) I'm not going to be able to marry him

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Post # 32
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

Doesnt put ANYTHING back where they should go, but instead puts them down where ever he is at the moment. Yesterday I had to call and ask where the can opener was. Wanna guess where he put it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Behind the T.V. Good thing I stopped looking and just called him. I would NEVER have found that on my own.

Post # 33
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Saying ‘dere’ instead of ‘there.’ GAAAAAAAH.

Post # 34
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799 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I am guilty of leaving the TP out on the counter. I think its funny most bees are complaining — guess Fiance and I  have a role reversal. 

 

I get angry when he leaves dishes in the sink (unless the dishwasher is full of clean dishes, which is RARE)

Post # 36
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

yeah inspite of the following I still married him LOL

 

He puts the dirty dish he JUST FLIPPIN ate off .. on the counter above the dishwasher and thinks he’s the BEST EVER.  (eye roll)

 

 gets in the shower everymorning and says ….. OHHHHH YEAS THIS FEELS GOOD… really? some of us are still sleeping. 

 

I do the laundry …. he complains that I don’t “Pair Up his socks”.  I used to but i’m so over flipping laundry you’re lucky it’s in the right drawer. 

 

Post # 37
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

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@missmorganista:  FI made me puke once with one of his farts. Granted I was pregnant and we didnt know at the time. But he did it on purpose! we had pulled up to the store and he was gonna run in. right before he got out he let out a silent one and then shut the door behind him leaving me trapped in the car with the windows up. I proceeded to claw at the window and door handle and when i got it open I just leaned out and started puking. He came out just in time to witness me finishing up. He was like “omg I feel so bad! im so sorry! it was supposed to be funny!”  really ya big jerk?! thats not funny! its gross!

Post # 38
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

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@stardustintheeyes:  DH still tries to get me ….. ugh .. to try to pulls his finger in the middle of the night…. seriously those farts are deadly.  Oh and he giggles when, at 2am, I say .. your so gross. lol  ugh

Post # 39
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

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@oneofthesethings:  Sorry… I didn’t see it was just for fun.

Post # 40
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

god some of these are hilarious!

I married him anyway, even though:

He likes to make abstract art on the floor out of used clothes on his side of the bedroom

He always takes his t-shirts off INSIDE OUT! I’ve threatened him with just folding and putting away his t-shirts inside out the same way he deposits them in the basket!

Clearly, I do the laundry in this household XD

Post # 41
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Helper bee

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@stardustintheeyes:  Mine is also toilet paper related, but it’s the fact that he uses so much. We are constantly out of toilet paper. I don’t know if he is having “special alone time” in the bathroom and using it for that but sometimes I will see this huge wad of tp in the bowl and just shake my head. 

Post # 42
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

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@cantonbride:  I think its just irritating because he takes the time to get a new roll from the cabinet, open it, but then cant take the extra few seconds to actually put it on the roll. like why do it all and then not put it on the roll? Plus it bothers me because its like he knows ill do it so he feels like he doesn’t have to. Kind of like how he will throw his laundry next to the basket, but not in the basket and then I have to pick it up and put it 2 ft away in the basket. Like if your gonna do something, just finish it!!!! especially when it takes like minimal effort and time. Im quirky though lol so this kind of thing really bothers me.

Post # 43
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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@stardustintheeyes:  yup that is exactly what he says to me. I dont know why, I just feel its unecessary? I know im in the wrong here. But one time i had to pee at 4am and was half asleep and wanted to stay that way (because if i hit 100% awake were done, im up for the day) i had to get a new roll and did not put it on the thing because itd require more effort, therefore more of me being alert. I told Fiance in the morning why i slipped up and he said “i just figure you wont anyways now” so now i just dont try. 

Post # 44
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

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@FisherQueen:  omg you just reminded me since we are talking about TP complaints. He uses the toilet paper as tissue. Like to blow his nose. Now this would be fine if we were out of tissue, but there is tissue in almost every room!!!! so why oh why oh why does he insist on using TP?! I watch him do it all the time. He says he forgets about real tissue because he never used to buy tissue when he lived alone and always used TP to blow his nose and stuff. So now its just habit, or so he claims. I will get him to use proper TP etiquette if it kills me!!!!

Post # 45
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

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@cantonbride:  I think I would be more forgiving if it happened over night. That I could understand a bit more. Especially since I am the same way and if I wake up enough im up for the day too. But he does this in the middle of the afternoon :   no excuse! none!

Post # 46
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

He takes his socks off and leaves them everywhere.

He’ll open the linen closet to take out a towel, drop a rag on the floor, look at it, and close the door and walk away…really?!!? 

We don’t have a dishwasher at our apartment, and sometimes he’ll fill the sink up with soap and water, put dishes in there like he’s going to wash them, gets distracted and forgets, then I have to stick my hand in the gross cold dishwater to pull the plug out of the drain…ugh! 

I have yet to make him understand that if he closes the shower curtain after taking a shower that the water on it can drain and therefore reduce the amount of mildew that grows.  He also seems incapable of closing it all the way and we end up with puddles of water on the bathroom floor after he showers.  He also throws his wet towel on the floor and then wonder why it smells sour later.

On the random occasion that he puts gel in his hair, he thinks it’s ok to use my brush to comb the gel through.

He can’t understand why these things bother me…I’ve asked him before if he thought some magic fairy came around and picked up his socks, washed the dishes, cleaned/bought a new shower curtain liner, and cleaned out my hairbrush!

 

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