- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
I am missing the bride gene. Sorry to dissapoint. I just don’t get excited about centerpieces, save the dates, invitations, my hair, table linens, aisle decor, rehearsal dinners, colors etc etc etc. They are just minor details that I know I need to make decisions on but frankly I don’t really care and I’m ok with that.
Apparently because I’m not out searching for the perfect napkins or the cutest “save the dates” than I must be upset about the wedding and having a hard time with it. I keep getting “it will be ok”, “just hang in there” “its not so bad”, “you are doing great! (always said like I’m a 5 year struggling to tie their shoes) Also apparently I’m supposed to be upset that my step-sister is into the details of her weddings and is getting married 2 months before us “Its ok that you are not doing everything M is” ya, I know, thats why I’m not doing it.
I can’t figure out why the world treats me like I’ve recently had a major mental breakdown because I’m not that into planning. Just because I don’t care if my napkins are plum, purple, or eggplant doesn’t mean I’m not excited for our wedding or more importantly, my marriage.