(Closed) “I’m not taking pictures with you if you wear your hair like that.”

posted 10 years ago in Beauty
Post # 3
2114 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@TinyTina: I couldnt help but laugh …I would tell my FI/SO to build a bridge and get over it – do your hair how you like ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 4
2116 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Can you compromise? My hair used to (I have no idea why it changed) by wavy and I could make pretty wavy hairstyles or straighten it. Can you make a pretty wavy hairstyle? Or straight with more volume? Or curl it?

Post # 5
676 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I’d wear my hair the way I like it and know it will look good. If I wasn’t happy with my hair or how I looked I think that would show in pictures. How often do you straighten your hair? What doesn’t he like about it?

Or maybe this is actually about something else other than your hair.

Post # 8
7691 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ahh guys are so crazy! Can we see pics of your hair normal and straightened? Maybe it looks good normal but you are just self conscious??

Post # 9
181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You may think it looks bad but your SO loves everything about you. He may want you to look the way you do all the time for the pics because he loves seeing you like that. Not all done up trying to conform to the idea of what looks good. Just do you. He loves you. 

My Fiance feels the same way, he preferes me in my baggy jeans a t-shirt and my hair all in a mess thrown back in a pony tail. He has expressed his feelings about me wearing lots of makeup on the big day and I have told him I wont be. I never wear makeup I find it uncomfortable. The most Ill be wearing is eye shadow and mascara. 

However, you also have to feel comfortable. So if you would feel better having your hair straightened then let him know that and he will understand. 

Tip for frizzy hair, as I have major frizz, frizzease is awesome.


Post # 12
7691 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

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@TinyTina: I like your hair straight! But now Im really curious to see it natural. I will be patient and wait until later! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
4799 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Maybe you could compromise by going to a stylist that day and having her do your hair so that it is wavy/curly but not frizzy?

Post # 14
3165 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

you can use your staightener to curl your hair too (youtube it if you’re not familiar)… what if you do that? then you’d be able to defrizz for you, but have it not be “straight” for him. (oh and your FH looks a lot like my brother… weird!)

Post # 15
251 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Haha, it is quite funny that he feels so intense about it. I think your hair looks beautiful straight! My Fiance also likes my hair curly but I prefer it straight so that is how I wear it all the time. Although he likes it curly, he is fine with me wearing my hair which ever way I like. Perhaps your Fiance just wants things to be all natural. You should post a pic of your hair frizzy.

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