(Closed) I'm officially waiting NOW.

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 5
2499 posts
Buzzing bee

@Hope1985:  I think after 2 1/2 years of being together, he owed you that answer. It just sounds like there was a communication break-down. I know I certainly felt much more at ease knowing that the ring and proposal were in the works, and I rarely bring it up anymore.

Post # 6
1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

I think that talking about things is always best! So well done for having the courage to speak up and stick with it! And now you have super exciting news for us XD yay (halfways through 2013 already ;))

Post # 7
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014 - Kentucky Center for the Performing Arts

It sucks when you don’t know what your future will be with your guy. Glad you got your clarity…however, I would say that from your description it looks like he was actually telling you that a ring and proposal was in the works. Some guys do not outright say it and they shouldn’t be required to if they are trying to surprise their SO. If you told your SO your requirements multiple times…at least one of those times he will have actual listened. So I wouldn’t have stressed it. Its common these days for women not to get a proposal for years. 3 or 4 years seem pretty average.

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