I'm officiating a secret wedding (What on earth do I wear??)

posted 10 months ago in Dress
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Valleybrook Country Club

herrera2016 :  I would ask the bride if she would prefer you to wear any specific color. I would wear a simple knee length or maxi dress with long sleeves or a cardigan.

Post # 3
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Busy bee

A grim reaper costume? Hide your face and disguise your voice. Haha sorry, this is no help, I just love Halloween 

Post # 4
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Busy bee

Ask the couple how they’d like you to dress. We asked our officiant at our casual wedding to wear khaki shorts or pants and a button down shirt (he chose short sleeves). 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2021

I’d ask the couple for some guidance on it. Tell them that this is, obviously, a very different sccenario than you’ve been in before so you’re not sure what the appropriate attire is for the occasion.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

herrera2016 :  Beautiful dress!! have you tried negotiating the possibility of a scythe? hahaha

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