(Closed) I’m over it now, but it wasn’t funny at first.

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
3182 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@MARIE901: So he was “bragging” about being able to get someone pregnant in high school?  

Post # 5
5797 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I honestly wouldn’t give a second thought to what a teenage boy had to say to me.

Post # 6
438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I would have responded with something along the lines of “no, we’re just doing things the responsible way… you know, like having steady jobs, getting *married*, and THEN have the baby” 

Post # 7
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Ok, granted, it was a shitty comment. But we’re talking a high school kid who is probably still blissfully unaware of how difficult raising a baby is. He’s probably in “heh-heh, I have super sperm” mentality.

Post # 9
2260 posts
Buzzing bee

@KatyElle: Ditto, hes still a boy and obviously doesn’t realize how hurtful his comment would be. He probably thought he was being funny. Granted I hope that his kid will grow up to know better than that.

Post # 10
16196 posts
Honey Beekeeper

@KatyElle: Hah. So true.

Dear OP, try not to let it bother you. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you and your husband. You are still brand-newlyweds! And I’m sure that your efforts TTC will go great! No rush at all. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Boys are dumb, especially teenagers! Sticks and stones, right? ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yeah that sucks and teenage boys are dumb. 

I’m glad you are letting it go cause considering the source, it wasn’t meant probably as a true insult. 

Post # 14
5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

That is a hurtful thing to say, but I think that it shouldnt be taken to heart. He is a hs boy. They say and do things they shouldnt. Honestly he was probably just giving your husband a hard time, not trying to be hurtful to you.

Post # 15
681 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

@KatyElle: ditto. that was an inensitive and rude comment, but highschool boys are pretty low on the food chain…immature and clueless. don’t take it to heart.

The topic ‘I’m over it now, but it wasn’t funny at first.’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors