(Closed) I’m panicking about wedding planning.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

SYMPATHY!!! I KNOW I will be the bride wanting to change every detail a month before, because it is hard to make such big choices.

Wedding planning is stressful. Have a drink, relax, watch tv and take your mind off it for 24 hours 🙂

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m the same way!!  Was this dress really the one?  Maybe I should have looked at more venues?  Do I really want a Fall wedding?!  AHHH!!! 

This is what I’ve boiled it down to (personally).  I’ve been planning my wedding since I was, oh 8 years old.  I’ve planned every wedding scenerio from a charming backyard wedding to an exquisite evening on the Amalfi Coast.  I thought I was going to LOVE planning my real wedding once I got engaged.  But then I started to get terrified… I’ve been looking at wedding dresses for a good 15 years, so when I actually bought my real wedding dress, I freaked out!  I just think there are so many choices that when I started to book things, it was just so… permanent.  I could no longer fantasize about my wedding dress or my wedding day, because it’s already all done!  Sort of a planning withdrawal?  MAybe I’m just putting too much pressure on myself. But I keep reminding myself that I’ve made all of these decisions for a reason and when all is said and done, the wedding day is going to be everything I dreamed of. 

Just keep reminding yourself that you made all of your wedding decisions for a reason – I’m sure that your day is going to turn out perfectly! 🙂

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@ItaliaBride: I agree with you. I think it is planning withdrawal, and the bride doesn’t want the decision making to be over. I am happy with all my decisions, but when I look at photos of other weddings I can’t help but think, “I wonder what that would look like at my wedding.”

Post # 6
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3257 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@whitandrior: Just remember that whether the cake has vanilla or buttercream icing is not going to matter in the long run. What matters is that your wedding is a lovely experience for your guests and, more importantly, an amazing night for you and your husband. Breathe! 🙂

Post # 8
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yes, you are being silly – purple and grey is a way better color scheme than black and green =P

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