(Closed) im pissed off..really pissed off…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

awww i understand your frustration, it’s YOUR day and YOU want to BE FABULOUS!!!

my bm’s have started tanning and working out and growing out there hair and i’m not even getting married until september!!

 

honestly, just take it with a grain of salt and as flattery that they want to look good for you on your day! you’ll still be the star and be the most beautiful on YOUR DAY!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I know how you feel!  My mom hired a personal trainer, my Future Mother-In-Law joined a gym, and one of my bridesmaids joined a gym too, because they all want to get in shape.  While I sit here and eat ice cream, haha.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’m sorry you’re pissed that they want to look good for your big day but I think you need to look at it as moral support.  My mom and two aunts have joined a gym with me so that I have some to workout with and try to stay motivated.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Aww, I feel your pain… I have a terrible sweet tooth too.  Gets me every time!  I have started either chewing gum or drinking water with the crystal light packet to try to curb that a little.

I would just consider it flattering that people in your life think that you and your wedding are so important that they want to look their best at it. 🙂

I totally understand being frustrated at wanting to lose weight but not seeing results, it can be really hard.  How long have you been at the “working out 3-4 days a week, cutting portions and sweets” thing?  I would def keep at it- you might not see results right away but you WILL get there, it just takes a little time to “trick” your body into losing some of its weight. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

You aren’t Madonna? Well sheesh that’s the only reason I read the thread, I thought you were Madonna Tongue out

In all seriousness I totally understand how you feel but I also understand others wanting to look good since they will be participating in your wedding. My sister is Maid/Matron of Honor and started working out just a bit more since she also has to walk down the aisle with people staring at her. She’s not trying to look better than me or steal my thunder she just wants to look her best for pictures and herself and I totally couldn’t be happier for her is she loses the weight she wants.

Post # 11
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546 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I had to go on a low carb crash diet for two weeks before my sister’s wedding cause I was ready to bust out of the dress.  It worked 🙂

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

 Sweet tooth here.  Maybe the other gals are trying to get in shape because they’re in the wedding party and will be in pics?  Or maybe they’re some single friends who think they’ll meet a guy there or something.  Maybe you can enlist their aid to help keep you on track.  Have dinner dates with them.  Make sure you all eat healthy meals.  Go walking/jogging/work out to buns of steel, with them.

And above all else, post pics of those skinny *** girls in your kitchen.  You know, when you’re looking for some ice cream.  😉  Although you might have some explaining to do if they see their faces on your cookie jar or something.

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Damn the sweet tooth.  It is my downfall also.

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think they are probably just jealous you are getting married and want to try to get attention any way they can.  I have friends like this.

I would not completely cut things you love out of your diet.  If you do, you just want them more and will binge later on them.

This is what works…

Cut down on the carbs and sugar.  Replace pop with water, Do fun workouts like ZUMBA or something else that does not really feel like a workout.  Eat tons of fruits & veggies and yogurt.  minimize red meat & fried foods.  The most important thing is moderation.  I love pop but if I added all those calories I would blow up.  So i make myslef drink water at work and during the week.  if i go out to dinner on the weekend and I am craving a coke, I go for it.  For me, I think eating very healthy during the week and letting yourself cheat on the weekends works.  You don;t feel as deprived and it is all about moderation.

hope this helps!

 

 

 

 

 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh I know how you feel! Like for instance my Fiance will cut sugar out for 1 week and lose 15 freakin pounds! Its sooooo frusterating!

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

My parents are trying to get in shape for my wedding. I think that it is good because my daddy and both of my FH’s parents are diabetic so this may motivate them.

 

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