- Miss. Flutterby
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
Can’t make everybody happy. But it’s okay, they will deal with it. Weddings trigger a lot of family stuff, and it’s not the last time you disagree. So I say practice being okay with saying no to people and you’ll always be a winner if you stay true to yourself. Have your wedding the way you and your fiance envision it.
This situation is cropping up again,
said family member doesn’t feel included enough
My wedding is in June of 2012. I don’t even know what I could GIVE her to do. I’ve invited her to every venue appointment, she doesn’t come.
I’m even going to a bridal show because I know she likes them.
Seriously, not even sure how I could make her feel more included at this point.
Granted, said family member is going through a rough time, unemployment, bad relationship breakup, but I feel like I’m entitled to be happy about getting married, hell I deserve to be damn excited and she’s taking it away from me..
This argument happens just about every other week with either her or another family member about her.
I’m just getting so frustrated I keep thinking maybe we should just elope and use our wedding budget for the honeymoon instead.
We both wanted a wedding to share with our loved ones but the way I’ve been feeling this past three months part of me just doesn’t think it’s worth the fuss.
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