(Closed) I'm quite lost and need a little help.

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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3357 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

from what I’ve seen around the site, you really should only have one day .. that is, if you’re married, you’re married. you shouldn’t have more than one ceremony. I’m not sure what I would do if I were you … I would feel very strange having two weddings.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

but the thing is … you said your parents and his grandmother are ill and that your father offered to fully fund your dream wedding if you do this small one for the ill. If he’s doing this because he’s worried that something will happen, then how is he going to fund your dream wedding if something happens to him before then? surely your dream wedding would have your parents and his grandmother incorporated?

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

If my ill father requested that we move up our wedding, I would do it in a heartbeat, and I would ask him to set the money aside for the downpayment on a home for us. Having all of your family there will make the smaller wedding so much more special-

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