(Closed) I'm sad

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@FutureMrsJohnson_:  Nice name btw! lol. I’m a “futuremrs” too 😉 CHEER UP GIRL! I know things are stressful right now but I think he’s just thinking of other things right now and throwing a puppy into the mix probably didn’t help. Men tend to think different than us. Trust me. My Fiance told me for MONTHS he had picked my ring picked out and everything when really, HE BOUGHT IT THE DAY BEFORE HE PROPOSED. I’m sure he’s trying to figure out in his mind how everything is gonna work out without saying anything out loud to avoid nagging. My Fiance does this because he knows I will nag him to no end lol. It will be okay. I wish I could be of more help!!

Post # 5
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124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@FutureMrsJohnson_:  You aren’t alone!!! lol. I deal with this all of the time. As do probably most, if not all of the other women on here too!! Fiance will tell me something and I totally get on board and get so excited and he’s always the one to tell me to pump the brakes. I’m like, really? you started it!! lol. Truthfully though, I think us women are ALWAYS steps ahead of our men hahaha. It’s totally normal. Try to calm down and not stress 🙂 I have days where I get so upset over something that was said during a not so happy time and I analyze every word and I get so angry. And then a few days later I ask myself why I got so stressed over it. I know you’re sad right now but it will all blow over. And trust that if he really didn’t want those things to happen, he wouldn’t have done them 🙂

Post # 6
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Busy bee

@FutureMrsJohnson_:  I think it sucks that he kind of lead you on with the puppy thing, but maybe you could walk a friends/neighbours/family members puppy/dog to try and get your puppy fix. I know it’s not the same as having your own, but hey, it’s still puppy cuddles! 

 

I’m sorry you two seem to be different pages about moving in together, but surely if you’re going to get engaged, you’ll be living together soon? Maybe that’s poem thing you two need to talk about again. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee

@FutureMrsJohnson_:  I understand, he definitely should have told you sooner. I actually went through something similar with my SO. He already has a dog and had been talking about getting him a friend for some time, I’m talking months! A few weeks ago I saw a husky online anfell in love, told SO I was enquiring about her and got offed her for a discounted price. I told SO and said “if you’re going to get made, I won’t get her”, but he fell in love with her the moment he saw her and she’s a great companion for he’s dog too. So I completely understand your frustration. I think boys kinda make off handed comments and then prioritise it to themselves, but we think because theye talked about it, it must be a priority lol. Confusing. 

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