(Closed) I’m scared I’m miscarrying

posted 10 years ago in TTC
Post # 77
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342 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013 - Garden

This sounds like a nightmare for you. I’m so sorry that this is happening right before Christmas. Hopefully you get good news tomorrow and you can just enjoy the holiday season.

Doctors and their terminology always make me feel so much worse. I’ve had some ongoing medical things over the last 12 months, and all anyone has ever managed to do is scare me. Best to try and relax and put it out of your mind until you get some concrete answers. If you still don’t know, they obviously have no idea either!

Post # 78
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148 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@Magdalena Just wanted to let you know you have been in my thoughts and prayers all week. I will be thinking of you tomorrow. **Hugs**

Post # 79
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1835 posts
Buzzing bee

I’ve been keeping up with this thread since your intial post, and I just wanted to say I’m so sorry that this is happening and I’m sending as much positive energy your way as I can. This has got to be so hard, especially this time of year – major hugs and prayers your way.

Post # 81
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328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this. Exp seeing that on the paper, I know the pain of seeing that. I hope that today that all your answers today, are ones that you want. Its great that things seem to be on track! Hugs and best of luck today!

Post # 83
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’m so, so sorry. (((Hugs))) I went through this last summer and I know the heartache. Please PM me if you want to talk. As far as the natural miscarriage vs D&C decision, I went through both. Let me know if you have questions. I’m so sorry. We are all here for you!!

Post # 84
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1194 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

((hugs)) I am so sorry for your loss.  I would go with the D&C; they will do an ultrasound before doing the procedure anyways; serves as a last minute double check and a guide for the doctor.  I had my D&C scheduled but started m/c’ing naturally, and it was really tough to go through.  Not so much physical pain, although it wasn’t pleasant, but emotional pain in the extreme.  Plus, sometimes, as in my case, they will still go through with the D&C to make sure everything passes.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  

Post # 85
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2670 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I am so sorry you are going through this. I had a natural miscarriage last month so if you have any questions or need to vent we are all here for you.

Post # 86
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1604 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

*big hugs* So, so sorry honey.

Post # 87
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528 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

*HUGS* I am so sorry. I have never had a D&C but I have had a natural miscarriage…I know others have offered as well, but feel free to PM me if you have any questions or just need to talk!

Post # 88
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Magdalena: I’m so sorry 🙁 I’ve had 2 naturals and I don’t recommend it. From what I understand it lasts a lot longer than when you get a D&C and the fact that it just goes on and on makes the emotional aspect really hard. Hugs!

Post # 89
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328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

hUGGS. Im soo sorry. I had a Natural. Im glad the whole process only took 3 days, the emot and physiacl pain, ugh. Im soo sorry!! If you need anything Im here for you!

Post # 90
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4005 posts
Honey bee

Just wanted to say that I’m really sorry for your loss. If you have any questions about the D&C, definitely let me know. There are a lot of us here who have gone through the same thing you have and it’s so painful…so please don’t hesitate to let it all out here. You’re amongst friends…

Post # 91
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129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

@Magdalena: I am so sorry to hear this. I was really hoping for a positive outcome for you! I know how hard this is as I just had  my 2nd (natural) miscarraige at 5.5 weeks in the first week of December. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

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