(Closed) I’m scared, nervous, and everything in between!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

I have a lot of worries too.  My two biggest fears are having a panic attack in front of guests and not having enough money.

Post # 5
1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Do you have the money for everything?  Cuz that can take away from the planning if you are always wondering where is this coming from.  I actually borrowed from my 401k and took a personal loan out, cuz I didn’t realize how expensive everything was, and we had a modest wedding really.  I am so indecisive also.  I would freak out over who is going to do my hair/how to do hair/makeup.  Just take it slow, you have SO much time.  I planned my wedding in about 3 months, so you really are good.  If you ever have any questions or need to vent, PM me!

Post # 8
193 posts
Blushing bee

I know what you mean. My wedding is less than four months away. One thing I did was write lists and lists of things that I needed to organise. Lists tend to calm me down, and I have to be organised other wise Im prone to panic attacks. You will find a dress that makes you feel amazing, I know this coz I am a aussie size 20 and I still feel like I look great. Wedding dresses are made to hide all the bits you want to hide!

In regards to DIY, i started planning, making stuff straight away. I still have four months and my wedding spare room is filling up. Ebay is great for cheap things and this weddingbee website is ideal for advice on DIY things.

Take a deep breath and remember to go with the flow sometimes. Be well prepared and it will be great!

Post # 10
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Rouquine: Girl I know exactly how you feel! It just seems like yesterday I had 2 years + left to plan and now the 1yr mark is approaching sooo fast! My biggest worry is to pass out during the ceremony or food running out, really silly things like that. I have started alot of my DIY projects and we have gotten all the BIG checks done. Now I make myself a list of things to do every week, I tick them off as I do them. That method has helped me alot with my planning. If you ever need to vent, de-stress, talk you can always pm me ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Rouquine: oh those are the best, make sure that when you go, you bring addressed labels with your name, wedding date, email add, mailing address, lol these come in handy!!! I just went to a show last Sunday and I was pulling out my labels, everyone laughed but thought it was the smartest idea ever hihi

Post # 13
2691 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Good luck with your dress shopping! Can’t wait to see pictures!

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