Post # 46
His justification of their “platonic” relationship is BS. If they get along that well and just met, he should be avoiding her like hell to make sure nothing does and ever will happen. Netflix alone at her place? That’s a major red flag. He just forgot to say “and chill”. It’s still emotional cheating.
Post # 47
He’s full of shit and you know it. He knows it. I know it. Everyone who reads this post will know it. Yall just tapdancing around the bush because leaving someone you have a kid with is hard. That’s probably what he’s banking on, he’s thinking that it’ll be so hard for you to leave that you won’t be able to do it, thus he can have his cake and eat it to. Which is digusting.
Personally, I would be completely repulsed by him and would have to hold back a beatdown every time I saw his face because I’d be so angry that he put me through that shit and then lied about it. So, I’d have to leave just to avoid potential jail time.
Post # 48
You and your kids deserve better than that. Don’t let him make a fool of you, leave him!
Post # 49
Thanks for advice girls.
He came home for our son birthday.
We talked about it and we agreed that we’ll give it a try again for our kids sake.
I thought i could give him a second chance, swallow my pride a bit for kid’s.
Truthfully i still can’t accept his excuses that’s why i have been watching him (yes literally watching!) and when i asked him to show his phone he was upset but finally he let me.
If look could murder someone, he’s already dead.
At the very moment i saw his call logs and read their convos im done girls.
I think it’s true if puberty hits harder when you reach his age ,neverthelles i quit.
Post # 50
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im sorry but there needs to be something done. Clearly your trust has been broken and you have to keep an eye on him; do you want that for the rest of your life? Also, seems aa though your Fiance wants something more and is getting it from you and the other girl (not okay in any way). He wants his cake and eat it too.
either therapy or break up. No kid deserves this kind of environment. They can still have their parents, but should not be exposed to their parents’ relationship problems
Post # 52
I hope you decide to leave. If you give him a second chance, pretty soon it will turn into a third chance, and then a forth… you deserve better and you can do better with someone else, kids or no kids!
Post # 53
love your comment, my mom let my dad run all over her and it irritated me so much. Though we never found out if he cheated or not ( I can assume he may have) to be honest I don’t know if he did it not but I’ve always been hurt that she didn’t stick up for herself and then used us kids as an excuse not to since she didnt want us growing up without a dad. However we always had to pick up the broken pieces of their bad marriage. We would have been better off with them divorced.
Post # 54
Thank goodness. He was planning to go on holiday with his ‘sister’ , leaving you with the kids while he slept with her not having sex . Not having sex like Cersei and Jaime don’t have sex.
Post # 55
Everything everyone else said, and he had the option to just sleep on the sofa that they sat on to watch Netflix but slept with her in her bed instead? Lol, nope.