(Closed) I'm seriously ready to cry…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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133 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Glad to hear it! 🙂

Post # 18
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3637 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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@redroses76:  I’m so glad to hear that your birthday was so lovely! 

Just keep coming back and re-reading this post of yours when it becomes too much. 🙂 

Post # 19
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714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I just wanted to comment on your thought that your engagement will never be a surprise.  My husband and I were together for over 7 years when we got engaged.  Marriage/engagement was something we had talked a lot about and I was totally surprised when he actually popped the question.  Things will happen for you when the time is right.

Post # 20
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@redroses76:  Don’t feel sad! I think you’re amazing and ambitious. You are going to be very proud of all your hard work. You deserve to spoil yourself given all the stress, however, so why not go for a relaxing massage or run a bubble bath? And plan a day of relaxing where you do girly tings and give yourself a makeover.

As for your job, and the mental and emotional stress it involves, it is a fantastic thing that you are learning about how stressful it is so young. You have your whole life to think of new ways to deal with work stress (going to the gym..learning to switch off…separating work from play).. or perhaps change your career slightly if you don’t liek it. 

Nothing to stress about in the long run..trust me, May 2013 is not far away at all given the thanksgiving/xmas period will go by fast. 

Post # 21
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Why are you so worried about your ENGAGEMENT?! If he proposes tomorrow it won’t be anymore of a burden on your life, right? You can still just wait to plan the wedding etc until all of your things settle down. I was engaged for over 2 years and it certainly didn’t affect my ability to finish my schooling or work! The only difference will be the ring you wear to symbolize another level of commitment in your relationship. By the sounds of it though, you guys don’t need a ring to keep you strong and happy, so hang in there and do what you need to do (and in the order you want)! : ) If you want to be formally engaged, get the ring, but if that gives you some sort of anxiety over finishing school, then keep waiting. Haha – I don’t think you should worry so much about this! You’re doing just fine : )   

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