(Closed) I’m sick of everyone hating me at work :(

posted 7 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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1890 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I have a coworker who gossips about everyone, so as soon as I started here, she started trying to spread lies about me and runs to the boss/anyone who will listen every time she perceives that I’m making some mistake (of course, if I catch her making a mistake I don’t even mention it to anyone).  It’s annoying but I just remind myself that her life must really suck if she’s that wrapped up in disliking other people.  Sorry I don’t have any great stories, but I feel like by ignoring her behavior, I’m not feeding into it or fueling the fire.  Just go in to work, hold your head high, get your paychecks, and think about how you’re gonna have an awesome wedding 🙂

Post # 5
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2829 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@jo.lee:

That really sucks :/

I have heard a lot of office situations can get nasty like this. (my mom is 50 & works in an office where stuff like this happens daily).

Is there someone you can talk to (HR, or your boss) privately about the hostile work situation?

 

Though, I would only pursue this if it would actually benefit the situation, rather than make it worse.

 

*hugs*

Post # 6
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@jo.lee: I dont have any advice, i guess I ony have support. I am going through a same kind of thing…but its my administrator who doesnt like me 🙁 Its awful, she is really mean, finds everything i do wrong and goes running to my boss, she has been reported to the union numerous times but nothing happens as well…its union.

So, i dont know what to say but “chin up” and like other posters said. her life must really suck to be putting all this effort in to make you so upset

Post # 8
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7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@jo.lee: Bring in cookies for everyone except for her. ^_^

Post # 9
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786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m sorry you are going through that but it does seem when you get a bunch of women together, things get catty and quick.

It is such a toxic environment in my department from my boss that my coworker, who is very mild tempered, told me today in tears she actually felt like pulling her car over on the side of the road and throwing up before coming in because of the stress our manager puts us through.

Post # 10
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1251 posts
Bumble bee

I also started a new job recently, and no one is outwardly mean to me, but it also doesn’t feel like they want me to be a part of the team. 

Also, no one is EVER HERE. EVER. There are nine people that work on this floor of the office, all full time, and I am the only one here right now. 

Post # 13
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166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m sorry to hear that you’re being treated this way. She must be a really unhappy person.

Post # 14
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7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@jo.lee: Ive been there. Women together = drama. I work in retail at Victoria’s Secret, so its all women there. Even if everyone else gets along, theres always that one girl trying to start crap.

*hugs* Eventually, she’ll screw up big time and get her ass fired or she’ll quit. Karma always comes back to bite you.

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