(Closed) I'm so confuse about my wedding…please help

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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960 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m not having a super small wedding but I see no reason you can’t.

Just the two of you IMO is not something you should do, in the very least your parents should be there.

Be honest with your mother and say “I only want to spend ‘X’ on the wedding” if cost is the reason you’re now looking to something very small.

A wedding is a party but it can be made to suit your personalities much easier than just chopping down the list. Why not have a cocktail reception after the party? You can keep the cost low and have some people there to give you their congrats and best wishes, which is really what it should be about.

Go with small if that’s what you two want, keep it intimate but don’t just elope if you always wanted some family and friends there. I think doing a cocktail reception would help you the most, bring that to your fiance and see if he likes that idea and then perhaps the guest numbers will be more relaxed/workable 🙂

Post # 4
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9552 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

There is no right answer for this. Each couple is different. But I think that whatever you go with, at the end of the day you’ll be married to a great guy so you won’t have any regrets!

Post # 5
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1935 posts
Buzzing bee

I would count the people that are trully dear and special in my life. the number that that comes up to is the number you should invite.

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