I'm So Confused

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
762 posts
Busy bee

Maybe he is having difficulty with ED and things not working right and he needs to see the doctor, maybe he’s embarrassed about it. I think a lot of guys get defensive and embarrassed about this issue. Does he gave a porn problem,  maybe there is a problem transitioning from porn to a real woman (you). 

His behavior is really odd. Going from nice and gentlemanly to rude and mocking and mean. 

I feel like there’s always a lot of judgment on here of women who abstain from sex until marriage, and I think that’s unfair. 

Post # 32
7255 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

OP – He sounds terrible and since he said he wasn’t doing counseling anymore, he’s unwilling to fix it. I’d start planning my exit. The agreements you made were with someone who may not have even really existed. That means they’re voided, imo.

Post # 33
5184 posts
Bee Keeper

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caligirlinmichigan :  Only when they complain about their husband’s lack of skill and desire in the bedroom….which seems to happen fairly frequently. I dont see how it’s unfair to point out the obvious. 

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